I’m not into bump pics…in fact a couple of weeks ago a photographer friend offered to do a pregnancy shoot with me and I physically recoiled at the idea.
As a chunky woman I’ve spent most of my life dressing to actively minimise my size and disguise my shape, why would I want evidence of rapid growth? No thanks.
Worse than the notion of bump pics, maternity clothes…I had planned to make comfy and stylish, un-maternity-ish clothes for myself this time round…only to be exhausted all the time.
However, I have been stoked to find that my existing #memadewardrobe has managed to do the job admirably into third trimester. Which has lessened significantly the pregnancy body dis morphia that plagued my last pregnancy.
I find the way society speaks about pregnant bodies massively problematic. I have felt as if treated like public property in my pregnancies, with friends and strangers alike commenting on my body/growth/shape/size. These comments can have a genuinely debilitating effect on women who are already struggling with losing their sense of self during pregnancy .
Living in me made clothing has made this pregnancy immensely more bearable than the first. Knowing that even if my body doesn’t feel my own at least my clothes are telling the story of my identity, gives me a lot of comfort.
Today I am wearing my extremely comfortable #helensclosetsandpiper crop top and #sewhouse7 slacks.
Note: I’m not after compliments on my pregnancy body, in fact, not commenting at all on my body is preferred, this is more about the value of me made garments for grounding my personality even amidst turmoil this #memademay2022
#perthsewing #memademay #memadematernity